Love is not a Fight

In our relationship these little things did not get to us, but after were getting to know each other the struggle began.........

robbie:  her voice was sharp, attack and accuse

lyza:  he watch on TV and be listening to me at the same time, i needed his love and attention but i was hurt by his rejection

lyza:  he never shares to me his decision, always doing his own way
robbie:  pabago -bago ng decision, ang gulo

But because we have both been willing to open ourselves to do changes and be better for one another..........

           lyza: I'm learning to have a soft voice filled with patience, never to provoke or degrade because I learned that bad words spoken can hurt your partner and it can destroy a person's spirit

robbie:  I need to take commitment seriously, so that she will learn to count on me and be open to me as her partner  

In Love we begin to understand when to back off , give plenty of space and when to move in along side and supply love and warmth. The relationship becomes mature, an adult with love and respect for one another. God wants us to experience a vibrant and warmth healthy and growing relationship.    

Song by Warren Barfield: Love is not a Fight

                                                                                                                              

Let Love be your greatest aim.

1 Corinthians 14:1