Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Music of our Hearts


Music almost has an aroma of it's own, it fills up the senses with a flavor that speaks of Love.
Music is one of the greatest gift God has given to Love.




at eto ang mga kanta na paborito ng loveteam " robbie and lyza" =)
         
This I Promise you
Nsync


Music of My Heart
Nsync and Gloria Estefan
through this song we learned how to be a better person for one another


Forevermore
Side A
this song makes us love each other forevermore


I Could not ask for more
Edwin Mccain


Hate that I Love You
Rihanna ft. Neo
this song makes us crazy in love


Forever
Chris Brown
This is going to be fun and memorable for us, di ba babe ;)


Music that brings back memories and smiles.


Videoke is one of our favorite bonding time =)

But whatever is good and perfect comes to us from God, the creator of all light.
James 1:17

Love is not a Fight

In our relationship these little things did not get to us, but after were getting to know each other the struggle began.........


robbie:  her voice was sharp, attack and accuse
lyza:  he watch on TV and be listening to me at the same time, i needed his love and attention but i was hurt by his rejection







lyza:  he never shares to me his decision, always doing his own way
robbie:  pabago -bago ng decision, ang gulo




But because we have both been willing to open ourselves to do changes and be better for one another..........


           lyza: I'm learning to have a soft voice filled with patience, never to provoke or degrade because I learned that bad words spoken can hurt your partner and it can destroy a person's spirit




robbie:  I need to take commitment seriously, so that she will learn to count on me and be open to me as her partner  

In Love we begin to understand when to back off , give plenty of space and when to move in along side and supply love and warmth. The relationship becomes mature, an adult with love and respect for one another. God wants us to experience a vibrant and warmth healthy and growing relationship.    


Song by Warren Barfield: Love is not a Fight


                                                                                                                              


Let Love be your greatest aim.
1 Corinthians 14:1

You're in Love

At times all of us feel overwhelmed with happiness..We have someone who genuinely and deeply loves and cares about us.



Someone has confirmed our worth, someone has envelope us in love, someone cares about how we feel.





The two of us always care but today seems different we care so much, at the end of the day it will be a thrill to see each other again, to hear each other voice. It feels secure to be close to someone you love.

Perfect love casts out fear.
1 John 4:18

The Biggest Gift

The first big argument is the one that hurts, it's ugly and sad. Like a stain on a white shirt and bruise on the body. But we recover, and recovery is sweet. Forgiveness is tender. 

After we had our argument.......
You can see through our eyes (maga mata galing yan sa iyak)


we watched movie

we had fun

our favorite, Videoke =)


Today we know each other better, today we love each other deeper, because we sailed the rough seas we now hold each other tighter.

Wise couple keeps forgiveness in Big supply, it is a key way to nurture intimacy in the relationship. Be gentle and ready to forgive your partner when we've wrong him or her. We can forgive because we know that God have been forgiven us first.


Instead be kind to each other, tender hearted, forgiving one another
just as God has forgiven you, because you belong to Christ.
Ephesians 4:32

When we hurt

Have you ever had a feeling that your partner is insensitive, selfish, rude, or even cruel to you?
Have you ever started to sulk about the way you are treated?




That is part of being in a relationship, that is part of being alive and that is part of being human.


To Love someone is to know pain        
To live someone is to be disappointed
To be depend on someone is to be hurt
That is part of human. Pain does not mean you are falling apart.
Pain means you are growing, giving, taking, sharing.
Pain means reaching for each other.

God understands that, He also loves very deeply, and sometimes is hurt.
If love must accompanied with some pain, we would choose for more love.








Couples need to take note of problems, while they are small, before they have time to eat away at a couples commitment and finally destroy the relationship.Learning to accept your mistakes will overcome and relieve the pain that you have, pain soon will go away and love will remain.

Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion of one another.
1 Peter 3:8



Kidding Around

Laughter is a gift that two lovers enjoy together...







We can laugh for hours over little things that other would not even understand
Laughter is something special.... ....





When we laugh and hopefully that is often, we should laugh together from deep down inside, until our sides shakes and our eyes water.

Nothing is better for them than to rejoice and to do good in their lives.
Ecclesiates 3:12

Too Tired

Do both of you personally commit time to each other?
This is a common problem to any relationship like me and robbie, some day, some way things will change. We as a couple change over time but is it for the best?

Activity is healthy when it draws you together but not if it pulls you apart.

look so tired and stress =( 

buti nalang energetic pa din ang partner ko =)



Trying to build love for all seasons with out solid foundation is an invitation to see cracks show up, so do your best as a couple to make the relationship "crack proof" learn how you can make some foundation repairs if they are creeping up the walls. So as to couple, God is not someone you make time for in your schedule. He is the most important part of your day, and He is in control of everything in your life, He deserves first place in everything.

He which soweth bountifully shall reap also bountifully.
2 Corinthians 9:6

Sunday, May 15, 2011

First Picnic

Can you remember the first picnic?


The person you were beginning to love was sitting with you.....

Our first trip @ Tagaytay


You laugh a lot with silly things...............



while we were on our trip, we also saw TJ and Rio
 double date hahaha

Thank God for having you =)



What a lovely pleasant thing you are lying here upon the grass...
Songs of Solomon 1:16

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Our Achievements

Pag in love inspirado daw, through hard work and commitment we accomplished something that our Parents and future little robbie and little lyza will be proud for us.


LOVE SUPPORTS

Dinner Celebration, Robbie Gene passed the Board Exam as Engineer
Super proud girlfriend =)

LOVE CHEERS






Starbucks Coffee Master
2005-2006













Starbucks Store Supervisor
2007- 2008
Team Cristina, Team RCBC Plaza, Team Taft


                           

Eng'r. Robbie
2008 - Present
Manila Electric Company




















In a relationship, always remember that you are not in a competition, there is no reason you defeat the person you love, you must show that you are there for your partner whatever is happening in their lives. Love always rejoice for one another.


Never jealous or envious.
1 Corinthians 13:4

Sharing Dreams

It's a good life filled with hope, packed with promise,
overflowing with dreams waiting to come true.
Some dreams comes slowly but they do come, and they come with  more pleasure
because the two of you dreamed together.

Bachelor of Science in        Bachelor of Science in
Business Administration         Electrical Engineering
                                                                                         Major in Marketing   


We know from the start of our relationship that we want the best for one another,
we want to build a future together.....
through patience and faith we know that we will have them..Tomorrow is a dream that keeps getting closer and clearer like an eagle swooping down from the sky.



Love is two heart, making their dreams come true.

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when dreams come true at last, there is life and joy.
Proverbs 13:12

Monday, May 9, 2011

I Loved Someone


Everyone is looking for love. What does real love look like? How we will know when we've found it?
God knew before hand that most of us would need a good companion.

someone who wants to laugh with you.
I Loved someone I could hardly wait to talk to

someone who wants to share stories with you 
share all the good and the bad news

someone who wants to share dreams with you

someone who wants to be with you even on your "kaartehan"


someone who needs to share disappointments with you

  I Loved  someone not only in moments of Passion or in fleeting times, I Loved someone from inside out, from deep within my heart, my innermost being.

Thank God for providing exactly what we need =)


And the Lord God said, It is not good for the man to be alone,
I will make a companion for him, a helper suited to his needs.
Genesis 2: 18

Beginnings


It all started during our High School Years, we were classmates during 3rd year. Si Robbie Gene, favorite ng mga teacher, matalino kasi pero mayabang (babe wag ka kontra, totoo ito hehehe) back then we never really know each other, never nga kami nag usap eh, sabi nila mabait naman daw siya pero for me mukha siyang mayabang, yung grupo kaya niya lage nang aasar sa mga ka grupo ko (bitter hahaha) Then we move up to 4th year, still we were classmates.Teka nakalimutan ko na, panu nga ba kami nag start mag usap? Superdami ko kasi suitor that time kaya di ko siya napapansin ( ganda ng gf mo, swerte mo hahaha ). One time during our English Class, we had a group presentation, 70's un theme ng grupo namin, pretty woman walking down the street is one of the songs na sinayaw namin (thanks to venus, remember pa niya) I can't remember yung theme nila Robbie panu ba naman lage sila dancer ng klase ayan di ko na maalala sa dami ng sinayaw nila. Then after the group presentation, our teacher Mam Mujal out of the blue suddenly commented that we look good together (ang buong klase nag ingay yiiiiiiihiiiiiii) But it does'nt feel kilig for me panu nga mayabang siya sa paningin ko, and di ko talaga siya gusto (hahahha) During the cellphone craze, I received a text message, then I replied to the message, nalaman ko si Robbie pala un nagtext (di yata makatulog nag-iisip panu ko siya mapapansin para paraan lng yan!)
We were classmate pala since 3rd year high school pero hinde ko napansin kasi si Lyza, parang tahimik lang kasi sya sa class at parang di nagrerecite (hehehe). Sinasabi nya na mayabang daw ako pero ang totoo COOL lang (hehehe). Yup tama right correct, I and Lyza was being recognized by our english teacher Mrs. Mujal, we both appraised that we were one of the best performer in our dance interpretation ba yun na project (hehe), the next day after that performance, nagbibigay na ng comment si mam. tinuro ako ni mam at sinabing galing ko daw (ehem) pero ibang pangalan un binabanggit nya (haha pambihira ok na sana kaso ako nga ba talaga un tinutukoy ni mam.) then after me, tinuro nya si Lyza (nagpalakpakan) sabay sabi sa huli na "mukang bagay daw kami" un oh bumanat pa si mam. haha. Di ba kami tao? Di ba kami hayup? Bagay kami Bagay?!? haha.
Its official, January 8, 2001 kami na! We both enjoy being a couple, always happy memories when were together.
Its a funny thing na sa dami daming araw o petsa na comment galing sa kaibigan o kakilala it is still 8 un date. Ang tip nila sakin 8 daw un gusto nya number eh (hehe), January 8, 2001, I made a moved (syempre sa tulong at pagbibigay ng lakas ng loob ng mga kaibigan), gumawa ng letter na hinde pa ako ang nagsulat, ako lang ang nagsign (hehe) tapos binigay ko sa kanya nun uwian. Then sinabi nya tawag daw ako sa phone ng 8 o'clock (o di ba 8 pa din hehe). Alas otso, nasa punerarya pa pla ako, nakiramay sa isang kaibigan, pero hinde ko pa din pinalagpas ang pagkakataon. hehe. Nakitawag na lang ako dun sa punerarya =) and eventually nakausap ko si Lyza ng 8 o'clock, at sinagot ako. Yipeee! =)
Our secret relationship only last for 4 months, before we enter College I decided to end the relationship because were too young for it and we need to prioritize our studies. Despite the break up, we continue to be friends believing our bonds as friends would not break despite the romantic relationship end. A few more months passed, I never hear any news about him (bigla ko yata siya namiss) but on my mind maybe he is dating somebody (di nga lang ciguro kasing ganda ko hahaha) I entertain suitors, but something is missing. One time nagkita kami sa Debut party, I know we both moved on, but seeing Him made me so happy. (I’m sure happy din siya nun nagkita kami) From that time on, we started to open our communication, we really feel that we still love each other. After six months we get back together hoping that we really deserve a second chance.
Before classes on college started, we talked about our status and condition, we both agreed that it would be better if we part ways and give more focus on our studies. But after ilang months, naging madalas kami nagkikita and eto un naging way pra mgkaron ulit kmi ng communication. We feel the enjoyment kapag kasama nmin ang isa't isa. That's why we've decided to be back on track and travel our journey together. Naks! =)
We were so aware of the fact that it was God, who was leading each step of our relationship, guiding us, standing over us, and protecting our relationship. We had discovered a kind of love that can’t even found in fairy tales, simply by giving God the pen of our life story and allowing Him to write each chapter.



    Photo during our High School 
What a love story would look like with God as the author.